Open marriages and polyamory don't work for everyone, but they do work for many people. Some background info - I'm a healthy, successful 32 year old woman who works hard to look good, my partner and I have been married for 9 years no children. If he won't put out, then he's destroying your marriage, and make sure he's aware of it - because you will do feel unloved, and will eventually look somewhere else. Sometimes, these ugly incompatibilities rear their ugly little heads, and the only way to deal with them is to do it together. Either way it doesn't sound good. He's probably isn't as naive and realizes that a fling could very well turn into a relationship. If he's not feeling like sex, then he should still put some effort into getting you off. Either way, talk to him, seriously and honestly, before you decide to hire a "professional" to solve your problems.
We were at a party a few weeks ago and I had to purposefully keep myself away from one of my husband's friends who'd been in my dream because I was afraid I'd have one drink too many and be all over him. Pull a Dan Savage on him. Of course it won't be mindblowing every time, but sex is emotional. Has the sex decreased for any specific reason? Either way, talk to him, seriously and honestly, before you decide to hire a "professional" to solve your problems. I just don't know what to do It doesn't NEED to be a stumbling block. I feel like a horrible terrible person for saying this but if I COULD have sex with other people and he would never find out or be hurt by it in any way, I would. You should also listen to why he doesn't want to have sex. I love my husband, he is a wonderful, caring, attractive man but for some reason I don't want to have sex with him even though I'm really REALLY interested in sex. Can there be a happy outcome to a situation like this? That way there is no cheating. Your situation of a low-sex-drive male and high-sex-drive female is not uncommon, and you simply need to sit him down and explain that sex is really really important to you. If someone isn't into me, then - I'm going to cool off on them pretty quick smart. You need to work on your sexual relationship with your husband. Then get a divorce. When you mention that the lack of sex is causing you a lot of inner turmoil, what was his reply? I and my husband also differ in the same way you describe, but that doesn't stop me from being very loving with him at the same time. What does jealousy have to do with it? You're thinking of having sex with other people because you want to feel loved and desired. Sex usually builds closeness because it is such an intimate and emotional act. You could reach orgasm solo. Your question is a bit confusing and inconsistent, as noted above, but there's also little mention of how much talking you've done with your husband. Sometimes, these ugly incompatibilities rear their ugly little heads, and the only way to deal with them is to do it together. We have a good relationship and a lot of history together but this lack of any and all sex in my life is becoming unmanageable. So save yourself some money and talk to him like a person who loves him.
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